Jesus traveled through all the towns and villages of that area, teaching in the synagogues and announcing the Good News about the Kingdom. And he healed every kind of disease and illness. When he saw the crowds, he had compassion on them because they were confused and helpless, like sheep without a shepherd. [Matthew 9:35-36 (NLT)]
My summer beach novel began with a man having a heart attack on a commuter train. For the next several pages, I was privy to the thoughts of his fellow passengers. They were annoyed and frustrated by the train’s unscheduled stop and saw the man’s collapse as a tremendous inconvenience. As they disembarked to find another way into the city, their thoughts were not of the dying man and his wife but of themselves and how their lives had been disrupted.
My husband has twice been on trains delayed because of a jumper’s suicide on the tracks. His fellow passengers were no different than the fictional ones. Their thoughts were about themselves and how the delay ruined their day. They seemed to forget that the cause of that delay ruined a whole lot more than a day for someone’s family and friends.
A friend who taught typing in the local college several years ago mentioned having had a student with only one arm. When she first saw him, her initial thought was of the difficulty his handicap posed for her as a teacher rather than empathy for the challenges he would face conquering a keyboard. Like the train passengers and my teacher friend, we usually see life through the eyes of self-concern. Forgetting that it really isn’t about us and we’re not the center of the world, our self-interest undermines our compassion.
The disciples were no different. Disturbed and annoyed, they wanted to send away the woman who kept begging Jesus to heal her daughter, the crowd of hungry people they had no money to feed, and the parents who brought their small children to Jesus. Seeing a woman desperate to free her daughter from torment, hungry people requiring food, and children needing His touch and blessing, Jesus wasn’t bothered and never sent people away without meeting their needs. Surely all those people who followed Him and pled for healing inconvenienced and delayed our Lord. Rather than complain, Jesus showed mercy, sympathy, patience and kindness. Christ and compassion go hand in hand but compassion doesn’t always come easily. It’s only human to have our first response be, “What does this mean to me?” or “How will I be affected?” It may be human but it’s not Christ-like.
“It must be hard for you,” said a man to my friend. “Yes,” she admitted, “but it’s much harder for my mother who has Parkinson’s!” My friend was inconvenienced by caregiving but she understood that it was no picnic for her mother either. On the days she resented the weight placed on her shoulders, she remembered it was even worse for the woman whose weight she was carrying. When she considered life from her mother’s position, any feeling of being inconvenienced was replaced with love and compassion. Isn’t that what doing unto others really means? To truly do unto others we need to put ourselves in the other person’s shoes instead of complaining about a little scuff on ours!
Father, when confronted with other people’s misfortune and difficulties, forgive us when we look to ourselves first. Instead of seeing how we’ve been inconvenienced, help us see ways we can help. Replace our annoyance with patience, our callousness with kindness and our self-concern with compassion.
The first question which the priest and the Levite asked was: “If I stop to help this man, what will happen to me?” But the good Samaritan reversed the question: “If I do not stop to help this man, what will happen to him?” [Martin Luther King, Jr.]
Since God chose you to be the holy people he loves, you must clothe yourselves with tenderhearted mercy, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. [Colossians 3:12 (NLT)]
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The terrible storm raged for many days, blotting out the sun and the stars, until at last all hope was gone. [Acts 27:20 (NLT)]
Although an acolyte usually lights the altar candles at our northern church, our pastor did it yesterday. He came out of the sacristy with an unlit brass candle lighter in his hand, reached up to the sanctuary lamp, removed its red glass globe and took it out of the holder. Using the sanctuary candle, he lit the candle lighter before using it to light the altar candles. After returning the sanctuary lamp to its rightful place on the wall, he explained that, although there had been several books of matches in the sacristy, they all were empty. No one seems to smoke anymore and, being new to our parish, he had no idea where matches might be stored. A resourceful man, he solved the problem perfectly.
After their recent visit to the oncologist, a friend asked me to pray for her father. His cancer is terminal and she asked me to pray that he will come to know God. He’s been sitting on the fence for quite some time and his time for fence sitting is rapidly running out. As I added him to my prayer list, I wondered, “Can we pray someone to God?”
As I went through my prayer list this morning, I noticed that my prayers are very specific. I pray for those I know who are mourning, but they’re not the only ones dealing with loss. I pray for those I know who are sick and for my friends who are sitting at their loved one’s bedside, but they are not alone. Although I pray for a friend experiencing problems at work, another having financial difficulty, and a family in crisis, I know others must have the same problems. I pray for those I know who are struggling with addictions but can’t come close to naming all who need that prayer. I pray for my pastors and friends in the ministry but pastors (and congregations) everywhere need those same prayers. Unless I hear sirens, I don’t pray for first responders, but those firefighters and paramedics need my prayers more often than that. Some mornings I have enough trouble getting through my long prayer list, how can I add more to it? We’re told to offer prayers of intercession for all of God’s people, yet how can we do His work (or ours) if we spend all day in prayer? We’d be so heavenly minded that we’d be of no earthly use to anyone. Nevertheless, it’s not just my list of people who need my prayers. I suppose I could cover everyone else with a quick “God bless the world and everyone in it,” but that doesn’t seem heartfelt to me.
I passed on to you what was most important and what had also been passed on to me. Christ died for our sins, just as the Scriptures said. He was buried, and he was raised from the dead on the third day, just as the Scriptures said. [1 Corinthians 15:3-4 (NLT)]
Devotions of the Heart 