BRAIDING A WHIP (Anger – Part 1)

Do not be quick in spirit to be angry. For anger is in the heart of fools. [Ecclesiastes 7:9 (NLV)]

He who is slow to anger is better than the powerful. And he who rules his spirit is better than he who takes a city. [Proverbs 16:32 (NLV)]

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In Jesus’ day, the Jews made animal sacrifices at the temple to satisfy Biblical requirements. Since those who traveled long distances to Jerusalem found it inconvenient to bring their own livestock, merchants sold animals at the temple. Additionally, every Jewish man had to pay an annual temple tax. No coin bearing the image of Caesar, a foreign prince, or an idol could be used, so money changers worked in the temple exchanging half shekels for any foreign coins. It’s easy to see how the outer court of the temple became both a marketplace and bank.

Unfortunately, what seemed a good idea turned into exploitation and corruption. The priests were renting out temple stalls for this bazaar. In order to pay that rent, merchants sold the animals at inflated prices and excessive fees were charged by the money changers. Moreover, the priests and Levites were reselling the animals offered as sacrifice back to the merchants. Instead of being sacrificed, the same animals were being sold and purchased over and over again. Think about the noise all those people made while conducting business and haggling over prices. Add to that the racket of bellowing cattle, bleating sheep, and cooing doves. Then consider the odor from all those animals and their droppings. Picture that sort of commotion in the narthex or on the front steps of your church. How could anybody worship in such a corrupt and chaotic environment? No wonder Jesus was angry at the way His Father’s house was being misused.

John recounts an interesting detail in his narrative of Jesus’ first cleansing of the temple. After seeing the temple’s marketplace, Jesus made a whip from ropes. With all the sheep and cattle around, it wouldn’t have been difficult to find ropes but braiding a whip would have taken some time. Knowing our Lord’s tendency to pray, I suspect Jesus prayed as he fashioned that whip. In those few minutes of prayer, He took his anger and turned it into a plan. He must have planned well because, as intense as his actions were, we don’t read of injuries, rioting, arrests or Roman soldiers arriving to quell the disturbance. While many of us would have gone off half-cocked and made a mess of things, Jesus took the time to prayerfully plan his action.

The Old Testament is filled with instances of God’s anger and we know Jesus got angry. If God can get angry, why can’t we? We can, if our anger is a righteous indignation. Anger itself isn’t the sin; it’s what we do with it that can make it a sin. The Bible tells us that God is slow to anger and we should be, too. Jesus took the time to braid a whip; let us take a lesson from our Lord to wait before expressing our righteous indignation or acting out of anger. We must never be led by anger but rather by God’s word and prayerful thought.

The Lord is full of loving-favor and pity, slow to anger and great in loving-kindness. [Psalm 145:8 (NLV)]

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THE “WE” MARRIAGE

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Love each other with genuine affection, and take delight in honoring each other. [Romans 12:10 (NLT)]

Today is my 49th wedding anniversary and, as I was looking for material for a message about marriage, I came across a 2010 article from the New York Times. Titled “The Happy Marriage is the ‘Me’ Marriage,” it asserted that marriage is no longer about putting the relationship first. People in what the author calls a “sustainable marriage” have spouses who “make their lives more interesting.” In something called “self-expansion,” partners “sculpt” each other “in ways that help each of them attain valued goals.” As for sculpting my partner, I may have sanded off a few of his rough edges in all these years but no relationship is sustainable when we’re trying to change our partner instead of ourselves!

I then linked to “The Sustainable Marriage Quiz” where questions were to be answered on a scale of one (not very much) to seven (very much). According to the author, the higher the score, the happier and “more sustainable” the marriage would be. It asked questions about how much our partner increased our ability to accomplish new things, increased our knowledge, resulted in our having new experiences, or was seen as a way to expand our own capabilities.

The article and quiz seemed to put the burden of our growth on our spouse. Granted, our spouses should motivate and encourage us—that’s what love does. Nevertheless, it remains our task to improve ourselves and become more accomplished, knowledgeable, interesting, and capable. The responsibility for our happiness and growth falls squarely on our shoulders, not those of our spouse. I think of the character in Jerry McGuire who said, “You complete me.” Becoming complete is not someone else’s task; it is ours!

No relationship lasts if it becomes stagnant but I wonder how long anyone can sustain an effort to keep giving one’s spouse new experiences, skills, or knowledge. As much as I love adventure, there is something delightful about doing some of the same things again and again with the person I love! The article cited research done at universities and I suspect the subjects were younger. Their concept of a “long-lasting relationship” was probably quite different than mine. When I think of a relationship as “sustained,” I think in terms of several decades not just a few months or years.

Although I believe the happy marriage is the “we” (rather than “me”) marriage, the truly sustainable marriage has a third party in it—God. As my husband and I have grown in our faith, we have grown in our love for one another. The more God-centered our marriage has been, the richer our relationship and the happier we have become. At close to half a century together, ours is not just a long-lasting relationship, but also one that is truly satisfying and sustainable. It is sustained by the grace of God through prayer and hard work. It is sustained by the effort we each make every day to love one another in a way that both meets our needs and honors God. It is sustained by thinking “we” and not “me.” It is sustained by a commitment to make the marriage work and by remembering that “love never gives up.”

Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. [1 Corinthians 13:7 (NLT)]

The question is asked, “Is there anything more beautiful in life than a boy and girl clasping clean hands and pure hearts in the path of marriage? Can there be anything more beautiful than young love?” And the answer is given. “Yes, there is a more beautiful thing. It is the spectacle of an old man and an old woman finishing their journey together on that path. Their hands are gnarled, but still clasped, their faces are seamed, but still radiant; their hearts are physically bowed and tired, but still strong with love and devotion for one another. Yes, there is a more beautiful thing than young love. Old love.”  [author unknown, found in “Stories for a Faithful Heart” compiled by Alice Gray]

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THE FABRIC OF OUR LIVES

Your word is a lamp for my feet and a light for my path. … See how I have loved your guiding principles! … O Lord, in keeping with your mercy, give me a new life. There is nothing but truth in your word, and all of your righteous regulations endure forever. [Psalm 119:105,159-160 (GW)]

loom at Golondrinas I often find myself lost in the Bible, fascinated by this amazing book of history, poetry, passion, and wisdom. Comparing translations and reading commentaries helps me understand the context and meaning of verses. Knowing something about the specific church to whom Paul was writing, for example, allows me to better understand his directions, many of which seem peculiar in today’s world where churches don’t argue about circumcision and food isn’t offered to idols. For example, Paul wasn’t playing fashion police when giving instructions about hair length and head coverings to the church in Corinth. Although Greek women worshipped without head coverings, Jewish women had always covered their heads in worship—an uncovered head for them was a sign of loose morals. Moreover, in Corinth (the city with Aphrodite’s temple and its 1000 prostitutes) both long hair on men and short hair on women were signs of prostitution. Paul was trying to unify both Jewish and Gentile believers and prevent anyone’s appearance from interfering with their ability to be a witness for Christ. Bible study also makes old familiar verses take on deeper meaning. David’s sorrowful words of repentance in Psalm 51 are even more poignant when we know they refer to his adultery with Bathsheba and the murder of Uriah. Bible study, however, is far more than an intellectual exercise; it enables us to know God as He revealed himself in Scripture and then to weave His word into our daily lives.

As a girl, I used to weave potholders and I’ve taught both my children and grands to do the same. We attached fabric loops across a small metal loom and interlaced other loops at right angles. Over and under the loops we’d go until the loom was filled. When finished, instead of a bunch of unconnected loops, we had a thick potholder that could withstand heat. While that’s the only thing I’ve woven, I try to weave God’s word into the fabric of my life daily. Unlike the Corinthians, I don’t live in sin city but, like them, I’ve been challenged to live up to God’s standard of morality and to behave in a way that is considerate to the sensitivities of others. I’ve neither committed adultery nor murdered anyone’s husband but, like David, I have allowed my sins to drive a wedge between God and me. Yet, as I weave God’s word into my life, I can handle all of life’s circumstances, even when I get into hot water.

“The touch, the feel, of cotton…the fabric of our lives,” the television ads for cotton tell us. Sorry, Madison Avenue, but neither cotton, linen, wool, polyester, nor silk are the fabric of my life. That honor belongs to God’s word.

A Pew Research poll in 2010 found that evangelicals ranked only a smidgen higher than atheists in familiarity with the New Testament and Jesus’s teachings. [Newsweek Magazine (1/2015)]

All Scripture is inspired by God and is useful for teaching the truth, rebuking error, correcting faults, and giving instruction for right living, so that the person who serves God may be fully qualified and equipped to do every kind of good deed. [2 Timothy 3:16-17 (GW)]

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WISDOM TO KNOW THE DIFFERENCE

The Lord will give [unyielding and impenetrable] strength to His people; The Lord will bless His people with peace. [Psalm 29:11 (AMP)]

Wiggens pass sunsetI have a small wooden box on my desk—my “God box.” It’s where I literally give my concerns to God; right now there are three items in it. The first is a photograph of a little girl. It is my grand, a sweet child with three congenital heart defects—none of which is going to disappear and all of which promise more trouble in the future. She also has learning issues—none of which will dissipate and all of which will cause more difficulty as she progresses into higher grades. The second item is a medallion from a sobriety program. It represents several people I love who have battled alcoholism or addiction—a battle they will continue to fight daily for the rest of their lives. The third item is a laminated card on which is written Reinhold Niebuhr’s Serenity Prayer. That one is for me.

I tend to be a fixer and once believed that, if I prayed hard enough and searched long enough, there was a solution for every problem. Surely, if something was wrong, it could be corrected. I’ve now accepted that not everything is fixable. There is no way anyone can fix my grand. Granted, she regularly works with a tutor, has an excellent cardiologist, and will be having more surgery. Her problems can be helped but they won’t disappear. My prayer for her is no longer one of miraculous healing; it is one of thanks and praise for a one-of-a-kind child. It’s not a prayer for change but rather a prayer for a joy-filled life and success within her limitations. As to the sobriety of those I love, their problem has never been mine to fix—their sobriety is their task, not mine. My prayers for them are for success in their challenging daily journey. As to the Serenity Prayer, that’s my challenge—to have strength enough to repair that which can be corrected, peace enough to accept that which can’t be altered, and wisdom enough to know and accept the difference. God never promised life would be easy; He did, however, promise His peace.

Thinking that every difficulty has a solution, we give God our problems (and the problems of others) and ask Him to solve them. Not everything that is broken will be repaired, not every disease will be cured, not every puzzle will be solved and not every problem can be resolved, nor are they even meant to be. Not everyone in Israel was healed as Jesus walked the streets and the “thorn” in Paul’s flesh never left him. Some situations are unfixable and must be accepted. As Niebuhr did in his prayer, we must pray for the wisdom to know the difference between what can be changed and what can’t. Then, of course, we need to pray for peace, acceptance and coping skills. Instead of fixing the problem, we need God to fix us.

God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; courage to change the things I can; and wisdom to know the difference. Living one day at a time; enjoying one moment at a time; accepting hardships as the pathway to peace; taking, as He did, this sinful world as it is, not as I would have it; trusting that He will make all things right if I surrender to His Will; that I may be reasonably happy in this life and supremely happy with Him forever in the next. Amen.

Peace I leave with you; My [perfect] peace I give to you; not as the world gives do I give to you. Do not let your heart be troubled, nor let it be afraid. [Let My perfect peace calm you in every circumstance and give you courage and strength for every challenge.] [John 14:27 (AMP)]

Now may the Lord of peace Himself grant you His peace at all times and in every way [that peace and spiritual well-being that comes to those who walk with Him, regardless of life’s circumstances]. The Lord be with you all. [2 Thessalonians 3:16 (AMP)]

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THE DOWNFALL

First pride, then the crash—the bigger the ego, the harder the fall. [Proverbs 16:18 (MSG)]

God can’t stomach arrogance or pretense; believe me, he’ll put those upstarts in their place. [Proverbs 16:5 (MSG)]

angelSecond Chronicles tells of Uzziah, a man who became king of Judah at the age of sixteen and reigned for fifty-two years. A successful and renowned warrior, he defeated both Philistines and Arabs and expanded Judah’s borders. Uzziah was also a great builder; during his reign, cisterns were dug, towers fortified, forts built in the wilderness, and catapult-like machines that could sling stones and arrows were built on Jerusalem’s walls. With God’s help and guidance, Uzziah became famous and powerful.

Unfortunately, along with Uzziah’s renown and success came pride. He forgot that it was God’s power, not his, that had brought him so many triumphs. As long as he sought guidance from the Lord and acknowledged God’s actions, he had success. But when Uzziah no longer consulted God and acted as if God’s laws no longer applied to him, his life took a disastrous turn. The pride-filled king defied sacred law by entering the sanctuary of the temple and burning incense on the altar. The descendants of Aaron were the only ones authorized to be priests and perform the sacred rites of worship. When the priests confronted him, the king became enraged. Leprosy suddenly sprang out on his forehead as God’s punishment for his sin. The leprous Uzziah had to live in isolation and died in dishonor. The once great king is not remembered for his great achievements but rather for his downfall and punishment.

Four of the last seven governors in Illinois followed their gubernatorial terms with terms in the penitentiary. Rather than remembering each man’s achievements, we only recall their corruption. Another Illinois politician was recently imprisoned; instead of recalling his service in the House of Representatives, he only will be remembered as a child molester. Every day we see entertainers, sports stars, religious leaders, politicians, and business people, once great and powerful, who will not be celebrated for their accomplishments. Instead, they’ll be remembered for their cheating, deceitfulness, fraud, immorality, corruption and worse because, like Uzziah, pride led them to believe they were above the law. Instead of a Hall of Fame, their names will be listed in a Hall of Shame.

Indeed, pride does lead to destruction and conceit to a fall. Like Uzziah, we need to recognize the role God plays in our accomplishments. Anything we have achieved would have been impossible without God empowering and sustaining us. No matter how successful, respected, famous or powerful we may become, we must continue to seek God’s guidance and obey his laws. Remembering that our successes are because of God will help us avoid the sin of pride and all the problems that go along with it.

It was pride that changed angels into devils; it is humility that makes men as angels. [Augustine]

Arrogance and pride—distinguishing marks in the wicked—are just plain sin. [Proverbs 21:4 (MSG)]

Pride lands you flat on your face; humility prepares you for honors. [Proverbs 29:23 (MSG)]

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DIFFERENCES OF OPINION

Work at getting along with each other and with God. Otherwise you’ll never get so much as a glimpse of God. Make sure no one gets left out of God’s generosity. Keep a sharp eye out for weeds of bitter discontent. A thistle or two gone to seed can ruin a whole garden in no time. [Hebrews 12:14-15 (MSG)]

white ibis (juvenile)“Compromise” and “cooperation” are words we hear all too rarely when it comes to our government. Illinois, with a $206 billion debt, has been operating without a budget for nearly a year because Republicans, Democrats and the governor can’t come to an agreement. Although Illinois managed to continue most operations this past year, the state’s poorest and neediest residents suffered the most. If an agreement isn’t reached by July 1, there will be additional shutdowns, more programs cut, schools will lose funding and all road projects will stop. Unfortunately, the winning of political arguments has become more important than serving the people.

The early Christian church nearly failed because of another heated dispute. Fortunately, unlike the Illinois legislature, cooler heads prevailed. Some of the early Jewish converts believed that Jesus’ message was for Jews alone. If a Gentile wanted to become Christian, he first had to become Jewish, undergo circumcision, and follow Jewish law (which didn’t sit well with the Gentiles.) To settle this argument, Paul and Barnabus went to Jerusalem to meet with the church elders. Everyone listened quietly as the men calmly shared their experiences with the Gentiles. Wisely, James turned to scripture for the final word and quoted the Old Testament prophecies showing the Messiah came for all people, not just the Jews.

Although the council decided that Gentiles did not have to become Jews to become Christians, there still were issues that disturbed the Jews about Gentile behavior. In the interest of the church, the Council found middle ground by asking the Gentiles to abstain from sexual immorality, eating food sacrificed to idols, consuming blood or eating the meat of strangled animals. While God certainly doesn’t condone compromising His standards, He does expect us to live in peace with one another and not to let differences cause dissension among His people. Because they quietly listened to one another, considered different points of view, made concessions, and turned to scripture for the final word, the message of Christ continued to spread to Jews and Gentiles alike. Differences were set aside to better serve both God and man. The council knew who they were serving; apparently the Illinois General Assembly doesn’t.

Don’t hit back; discover beauty in everyone. If you’ve got it in you, get along with everybody. Don’t insist on getting even; that’s not for you to do. “I’ll do the judging,” says God. “I’ll take care of it.” [Romans 12:17-19 (MSG)]

Those of us who are strong and able in the faith need to step in and lend a hand to those who falter, and not just do what is most convenient for us. Strength is for service, not status. Each one of us needs to look after the good of the people around us, asking ourselves, “How can I help?” [Romans 15:1-2 (MSG)]

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