OUR AUTHENTIC SELVES (HYPOCRISY – Part 1)

Jesus told them, “Isaiah was right when he prophesied about you hypocrites in Scripture: ‘These people honor me with their lips, but their hearts are far from me.’” [Mark 7:6 (GW)]

great-blue-heronI’ve been reading a book about discovering one’s “authentic” self; among other things, the author concluded that her authentic self wears make-up. I admit to wearing make-up, coloring my hair, wearing a padded bra and using Spanx, but I’d never call that my authentic self! Without a doubt, that’s my more attractive self, but hardly the authentic one! While I don’t consider it “authentic,” trying to appear as attractive as possible isn’t hypocritical. Pretending to be one person in public and actually being another one in private is!

Jesus spent a great deal of time condemning the hypocrisy of the Pharisees. Like the Greek thespians who wore masks while acting in the theater, they presented one face to the world while their real one was hidden behind their masks. In fact the word “hypocrite” comes from the Greek word “hypokrites” which means actor. The Christian church has taken a lot of flak for being filled with hypocrites and, unfortunately, some of it is justified. I’m the first to admit that my actions often don’t match my words and there frequently is a shortage of spiritual fruit in my orchard.

Fortunately, the validity of Christianity depends on the truth of Jesus Christ—his death, resurrection and ascension—rather than the behavior of His followers. We’re all sinners and even the most devout among us misses the mark on occasion (or frequently, in my case). Being a Christian doesn’t mean we don’t struggle with sin—Jesus set a high standard and we all fall short of it. Nevertheless, we can do our best to live as we profess to believe by relying on the Holy Spirit to convict, empower and change us. Being a sinner isn’t hypocrisy—it’s just part of being human. Christian sinners know what they are and admit it; they recognize, acknowledge and repent of their sins. On the other hand, hypocrites recognize their sin but neither acknowledge nor repent of it. Clearly, not all sin is hypocrisy; all hypocrisy, however, is a sin!

Why is it that a community that talks so much about supernatural transformation shows so little of that transformation? We will have to be men and women who embody the message that we are preaching, whose lives are faithful to the claims we are making. [Ravi Zacharias]

So get rid of every kind of evil, every kind of deception, hypocrisy, jealousy, and every kind of slander. [1 Peter 2:1 (GW)]

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HIS FAMILY

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Someone told Jesus, “Your mother and your brothers are standing outside, and they want to see you.” Jesus replied, “My mother and my brothers are all those who hear God’s word and obey it.” [Luke 8:20-21 (NLT)]

Last Sunday, my morning’s Bible reading was Luke 8 and I was again struck by Jesus’ rather brusque words dismissing his mother and brothers. They weren’t really a denial of His earthly family; after all, His last words expressed concern for His mother. He was making the point that His work as Messiah was even more important than blood ties, adding that those who heard and recognized God’s word had a closer link with Him than even His earthly family. Even so, I found His words rather curt and un-Jesus-like.

We were visiting friends so I attended church with our Roman Catholic hosts. Although I’m Protestant, as I read their bulletin and joined in worship, I found we had far more similarities than differences. We said the same creed, recited the same Lord’s Prayer, sang many of the same songs, celebrated communion similarly with bread and wine, and heard words from the same Gospels, Epistles and Psalms. We prayed, praised and worshipped as a family. Like Christian churches everywhere, their parish visits the sick, brings communion to the homebound, has a bereavement group, collects food for the food pantry, and needs volunteers for various church tasks and teachers for Vacation Bible School. I recalled Jesus’ words in Luke and realized I’d been concentrating on His rebuff of relatives rather than the meaning of the rest of His words. Jesus’ family isn’t limited to flesh and blood but includes all those who hear and obey His word. If I am His family, all believers are part of my family! Regardless of their denomination, all Christians are my kinfolk—my brothers and sisters—no matter what house in which they choose to worship.

Later in the day, I finished reading their church bulletin and saw that their “prayer intention” for the month of March was for persecuted Christians that they might be “supported by the prayers and material help of the whole Church.” According to the U. S. Department of State, Christians in more than 60 countries face persecution from their governments or surrounding neighbors simply because of their belief in Jesus Christ. According to Open Doors, 215 million Christians experience high to extreme persecution. Their web site reports that every month, 332 Christians are killed for their faith, 772 forms of violence (i.e. beatings, abductions, torture, and arrest) are committed against Christians, and 214 Christian churches or properties are destroyed.

In Romans 8, the Apostle Paul eloquently points out that Christians are all God’s children, saying that “together with Christ we are heirs of God’s glory.” He then adds, “But if we are to share his glory, we must also share his suffering.” [17b-18] If we truly share in His suffering, we also share in the suffering of our brothers and sisters in Christ. With Paul’s words in mind, I ask Protestants and Catholics alike to abide by Pope Francis’ direction to focus our prayers this month on supporting persecuted Christians everywhere.

We are One in The Spirit, We are One in The Lord. And we pray that all unity may one day be restored. … We will walk with each other, We will walk hand in hand. And together we’ll spread the News that God is in our land. … Yes, they’ll know we are Christians by our love. [From “We are One in the Spirit” (Peter Scholte)]

For you are all children of God through faith in Christ Jesus. And all who have been united with Christ in baptism have put on Christ, like putting on new clothes. There is no longer Jew or Gentile, slave or free, male and female. For you are all one in Christ Jesus. [Galatians 3:26-28 (NLT)]

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THE BASKET OF HOPE AND COURAGE

We know that God makes all things work together for the good of those who love Him and are chosen to be a part of His plan. … Since God is for us, who can be against us? [Romans 8:28,31b (NLV)]

crinium lilyAs I looked through my basket of Christmas cards, I thought of all the people who have passed through my life. Contained in that basket is a fair amount of sorrow and misfortune—divorce, heart failure, assorted diseases, surgeries (some successful and others not), heartbreak, disappointment, cancer, mental illness, addiction, paralysis, birth defects, financial difficulty, and loss. Yet, within that basket, I also find hope, faith, resilience, peace, joy, perseverance, strength and love. There are children who defied the odds, families facing tremendous challenges with great courage, people who’ve forgiven the unforgiveable, widows and widowers meeting their new normal with confidence, hurt people determined to heal, caregivers finding strength to continue when many would quit, parents prayerfully waiting for prodigals to return, and people who can still laugh in the face of adversity.

On its campus, our local hospital has a beautiful retreat, The Garden of Hope and Courage, with a one-acre lake surrounded by flowers, trees, benches, and lovely sculpture. My basket of cards is a mini garden of hope and courage and is no less beautiful. I am blessed that God brought people like these into my life—people who have inspired, encouraged, loved, challenged, and taught me.

I pick up one card from friends; it has several photos of their eight beautiful grandchildren. When we were neighbors forty-five years ago, they certainly never envisioned those eight smiling faces nor did we picture the faces of our five equally beautiful grands. Young parents then, we just were trying to get through the challenges of the week that lay ahead of us. We never pictured ourselves in our seventies and retired in Florida! Of course, we never envisioned the illnesses, challenges, pain, heartbreak and loss that lay ahead either. Nevertheless, just as I’d never want to erase the face of any of those grandchildren, I’d never want to erase one moment of the past, no matter how painful it was. I wouldn’t have gotten to where I am now without passing through those dark valleys.

Is my life perfect? Is yours? Of course not—yet it is the life God gave us and we are incredibly blessed by every moment of it. We have people to love and people who love us and, best of all, we have a God who loved us enough to send us His very best! Sometimes I think I should pinch myself to be sure it’s not a dream! Then again, if it’s all a dream, I have no desire to wake up!

Perhaps it’s the end of one year and the beginning of yet another that has me waxing so nostalgic or maybe it’s just the Christmas music playing in the background. I gather up the cards and wrap a band around them. They will be placed in my prayer basket. During this year, I’ll pull out a card or two each morning and offer prayers for the sender. This year, I’ll also remember to thank God for the part each one has played in my life.

I awoke this morning with devout thanksgiving for my friends, the old and new. [Ralph Waldo Emerson]

Friendship is unnecessary, like philosophy, like art… It has no survival value; rather it is one of those things that give value to survival. [C.S. Lewis]

Be happy in your hope. Do not give up when trouble comes. Do not let anything stop you from praying. … Be happy with those who are happy. Be sad with those who are sad. [Romans 12:12,15 (NLV)]

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SANDCASTLES

My dear children, let’s not just talk about love; let’s practice real love. This is the only way we’ll know we’re living truly, living in God’s reality. It’s also the way to shut down debilitating self-criticism, even when there is something to it. For God is greater than our worried hearts and knows more about us than we do ourselves. [1 John 3:18-20 MSG)]

sandcastlesIt was well past midnight when I finally rolled into bed. Barely able to keep my eyes open, I reached over to read my evening’s meditation. How we choose to spend our time was the topic and the author wrote of the futility of building sandcastles that would be washed away in the tide. “It all may seem worthwhile, but in the end it’s worthless,” were his words. Since I’d just spent countless hours working on line to create a photo book for my mother-in-law, I stopped reading and moaned, “Oh Lord, was this project a sandcastle? Is the book not worthy of the hours I spent creating it?” I’d neglected my writing to finish this project and now the words I was reading filled me with self-reproach. Had I wasted precious time? I knew the book wouldn’t disappear with the tide but would it be appreciated? Perhaps it would be read and forgotten or maybe never even seen. After all, my mother-in-law is 100 years old and her clock is winding down. There was always the possibility that, by the time was book was printed and shipped, it would arrive after she departed! I started thinking of all the other more important or worthy things I could have done with those many hours.

Fortunately, I kept reading. The author then wrote of spending hours building real sandcastles with his children. Those sandcastles, even though they’d be gone in the morning, were more worthwhile than the sandcastles he built in other areas of his busy life. The time he spent at the beach, fully engaged with his children in their construction efforts, was time wisely used.

I remembered the old story of a little boy who gave his Peace Corps teacher a beautiful seashell. Since their village was 30 miles from the nearest seashore, she knew the boy had walked several days to bring her that shell. “You shouldn’t have traveled so far just to find a gift for me,” she told him. “The long walk is part of the gift!” was his response. Perhaps I didn’t need to spend as much time editing the pictures, designing layouts, placing the right embellishments on each page, or finding the perfect quotes, but they were all part of the long walk included in the gift.

Dark thoughts often come late at night, especially when we’re exhausted. I’d forgotten that we must always let love guide us. Granted, we should spend time furthering God’s kingdom but there’s more than one way to do that! Sometimes we further it by taking a long walk for someone. How we spend our time indicates what we treasure. Whether we’re building sandcastles with the kids or making photo books for the family, delivering meals to the ill or baking cookies for Sunday school, patching drywall in a Habitat house or constructing Lincoln log cabins with the grands, our time is a gift of love and that gift will last for eternity.

If instead of a gem, or even a flower, we should cast the gift of a loving thought into the heart of a friend, that would be giving as the angels give. [George MacDonald]

Let me give you a new command: Love one another. In the same way I loved you, you love one another. This is how everyone will recognize that you are my disciples—when they see the love you have for each other. [John 13:34-35 (MSG)] 

Give away your life; you’ll find life given back, but not merely given back—given back with bonus and blessing. Giving, not getting, is the way. Generosity begets generosity. [Luke 6:38 (MSG)]

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OFFERING PRAYERS

calico asterAlso, the Spirit helps us with our weakness. We do not know how to pray as we should. But the Spirit himself speaks to God for us, even begs God for us with deep feelings that words cannot explain. God can see what is in people’s hearts. And he knows what is in the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit speaks to God for his people in the way God wants. [Romans 8:26-27 (NCV)]

In yesterday’s message, I wrote that a friend prays and yet I’m amazed how rarely that actually happens. Yes, a friend may pray for someone but how often do we, as friends, pray with that someone? Twice when visiting someone in hospital, a chaplain has dropped in to visit. Twice, the chaplain spoke briefly with us and then turned to leave without offering a prayer. Twice, I was the one who asked for prayer—one time for a prayer of thanksgiving and the other for one of strength and healing. Afterwards, I wondered why these hospital chaplains didn’t offer to pray with us. Isn’t prayer part of their job? As I started to point my finger, I saw three fingers pointing back at me and had to admit that I’m not one for offering spur-of-the-moment prayers either. I asked God not to allow me to leave a prayer unoffered or unsaid.

Last month, shortly after the second hospital incident, I was talking with a recently widowed friend. A trip with flowers to the cemetery had left her sad and teary-eyed. We hugged as I departed. I’d only taken a few steps toward my car when the Holy Spirit convicted me: “Here’s your opportunity—pray with her!” I turned back to my friend, held her hands and lifted her needs up to the Lord. I wasn’t eloquent and couldn’t remember any Bible verses; whatever I said was unremarkable, but that didn’t matter. The Holy Spirit knew my friend’s needs and lifted our prayers heavenward.

I’m a writer, not a prayer warrior, and offering prayer  is way out of my comfort zone. My comfort, however, is not high on God’s priority list. Last week, while taking pictures in the park before worship service, I stopped to chat with a young woman who’s started attending our church. I know little about her except that she’s new to the area, belongs to a friendly Dalmatian, and is job hunting. As I stooped to get a photo of her dog, I asked how the job search was going. Answering that she’d not gotten the job for which she applied, I replied with a few encouraging words. When I stepped away to continue taking pictures, I realized my work was not done. Turning back, I asked, “Can we pray?” We held hands and I offered a quick prayer that God would lead this lovely woman to the right job opening. There was nothing memorable or eloquent about my words; they were, however, heartfelt and sincere.

It’s easy to say, “I’ll pray for you,” but a bit harder to actually do it. For many of us, it’s even harder to pray with someone right then and there, but isn’t that what all Christians (not just hospital chaplains) should do?  The sincere agreement of two believers in prayer is powerful and effective because the Holy Spirit is with them, guiding their requests. Our prayers don’t have to be eloquent or deeply profound; they just have to be said.

Rich is the person who has a praying friend. [Janice Hughes]

Also, I tell you that if two of you on earth agree about something and pray for it, it will be done for you by my Father in heaven.  This is true because if two or three people come together in my name, I am there with them. [Matthew 18:19-20 (NCV)]

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INSTANT MESSAGING

Call to me and I will answer you, and will tell you great and hidden things that you have not known. [Jeremiah 33:3 (ESV)]

Rejoice in hope, be patient in tribulation, be constant in prayer. [Romans 12:12 (ESV)]

You pray in your distress and in your need: would that you might pray also in the fullness of your joy and in your days of abundance. [Kahlil Gibran]

apple blossomI never thought I’d enjoy my smartphone so much, especially instant messaging. Now that I’ve gotten the hang of it, I love the way it keeps me connected with friends and family who are thousands of miles away. Between the grands’ recent report cards, Halloween costumes, trick-or-treating and the World Series, our phones have been dinging and whistling with texts and pictures for the last several days. Unfortunately, that dinging and whistling can go on much later than we old folks like! With our children living in time zones west of us, what seems like early evening to them is bedtime for us. During the Series, we’ve taken to silencing our phones before going to bed. Like our children, we want the Cubs to win; unlike them, we can wait until morning to find out if it happened!

Nevertheless, in spite of occasionally getting messages at inconvenient times, I appreciate the way we can share news and photos instantly at any time. Are we as quick to communicate with God throughout the day? When we find it worthwhile enough to text someone, isn’t it worthwhile enough to add God to the message? When we’re running errands, we can text home to check if there’s anything more we need to do. Are we as willing to ask God that same question? When our hairdresser or doctors send appointment reminders, we’re quick to text back with our confirmation. When God calls us, do we respond as quickly with a “yes” to Him? We regularly check to make sure we haven’t missed a call, text or email. Do we as eagerly check with God for His messages to us? When we lose sight of one another in a crowd, we text “Where R U?” In those moments when we feel frightened or alone, do we as readily ask God that same question?

emoji praying handsTrue confession time—although I often write about making prayer an ongoing part of our daily routines, I tend to compartmentalize my own day. I allocate specific times to prayer and the rest of the day to living when, in actuality, my entire life should be a prayer. Granted, I’ve been known to offer quick thanks for God’s “Aha!” moments and “Please!” and “Help!” are often submitted to Him, but those brief messages are just the emojis of prayer. If I can send a picture or text to my kids, I can pause long enough to tell God how blessed I am by the moment or how much I love and need Him.

Although I occasionally silence or ignore my phone’s ring, God doesn’t mute our prayers or disregard our messages. With Him, there’s never an inconvenient time and we’re always in His service area. Best yet, while we should never text while driving, we don’t need Bluetooth technology to talk with God—prayer is always “hands free.” In fact, considering the way people drive nowadays, prayers should always be said when behind the wheel!

For prayer is nothing else than being on terms of friendship with God. [Saint Teresa of Avila]

Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you. [1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 (ESV)]

Continue steadfastly in prayer, being watchful in it with thanksgiving. [Colossians 4:2 (ESV)]

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