A PARENT’S LOVE

The Lord is compassionate and merciful, slow to get angry and filled with unfailing love. [Psalm 103:8 (NLT)]

swans (mute) - parent's loveweb

Like most parents, there were times my husband and I were exasperated by, disappointed in, displeased with, and ticked off at our children. While we tried to be compassionate and merciful, we weren’t necessarily slow to get angry. In spite of our anger, however, like God, we were always filled with unfailing love. We could be disappointed, distressed, and even hurt by our children yet we persisted in our love for them. Even though they weren’t always loveable—in fact, there were times they were barely likeable—we loved them unconditionally. After all, they were our children—a part of us. Fortunately, they all survived our less than perfect parenting and have grown into wonderful adults and loving parents with children of their own. While we settle into enjoying grandparenthood, they are now experiencing for themselves the challenges of parenting and the tremendous power of parental love.

If mothers and fathers, mere flawed humans, can continue to love their children in spite of wrecked cars, skipped school or broken laws, our perfect God can easily persist in loving His children in spite of their myriad offenses. If mortal parents can still love children that deceive them, treat them with contempt, or disappoint them, think about how much our divine God can continue to love His children regardless of their transgressions. Consider how much more able He is to have unfailing love for His offspring than an ordinary man or woman. I don’t know how He manages it, but He does. He may be angry and disappointed with us, but He continues to love us.

Thank you, Father God, for not losing faith in your children; thank you for your unfailing love and forgiveness.

Where is another God like you, who pardons the guilt of the remnant, overlooking the sins of his special people? You will not stay angry with your people forever, because you delight in showing unfailing love. Once again you will have compassion on us. You will trample our sins under your feet and throw them in the depths of the ocean! You will show us your faithfulness and unfailing love as you promised to our ancestors Abraham and Jacob long ago. [Micah 7:18-20 (NLT)]

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IN THE RAIN

mute swans
Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to your life? Since you cannot do this very little thing, why do you worry about the rest? [Luke 12:25-26 (NIV)]

Test me, Lord, and try me, examine my heart and my mind; for I have always been mindful of your unfailing love and have lived in reliance on your faithfulness. [Psalm 26:2-3 (NIV)]

In spite of the ominous looking sky, I thought the rain would wait more than an hour before arriving, so I confidently set off through the woods. By the time I was halfway through my walk, however, the clouds were delivering their rain. While meteorology isn’t my strong suit, optimism probably is. As I slowly got soaked, I thought of the quote that life isn’t about waiting for the storm to pass but rather about learning to dance in the rain. We can choose to be wet and miserable or wet and happy—either way we’ll still be soaked! Although I didn’t dance, I didn’t let the rain dampen my spirits. Knowing I couldn’t get any wetter (and ever hopeful of a Kodak moment), I stopped along the trail and went out to a viewing platform. I was rewarded with my first sighting of the swans this season (who were doing their own version of dancing in the rain).

There are those of us for whom the glass is half full and others for whom is it half empty. For the Buddhist, however, that glass is already broken. The story is told that Achaan Chaa, a Thai Buddhist master, once held up a glass of water for his guests. After telling them how much he admired the way it held water, glistened in the sunlight, and rang when tapped, he added that, for him, the glass was already broken. The sage explained that one day the wind would blow it off the shelf or he’d accidentally knock it from the table and the glass would shatter. Thinking of the glass as already broken, he could delight in it while he had it and wouldn’t mourn its loss when it did break. Chaa wasn’t a pessimist; after all, glasses break! Rather, because he knew every moment with his fragile glass was precious, he was a mindful realist. Of course, his lesson was about far more than a simple glass of water. I suspect that the Buddhist master, fully aware of life’s fragility and truly appreciative of all it has to offer, knew how to dance in the rain.

Christian mindfulness is more than being conscious of what we are feeling, doing, or thinking. It is paying attention to God, focusing on His kingdom, hearing His voice, growing in love, noticing and treasuring His gifts, and thanking Him for them. Christian mindfulness sees God’s hand in all things and doesn’t worry about tomorrow. It lives in the present and trusts God for the future. The Christian, knowing how the story ends, has joy and peace in all circumstances.

Heavenly Father, we know we live in a broken world—a world with disease, disaster, destruction and death. In spite of this brokenness, guide us to be mindful so that we delight in every person, place, thing, circumstance and breath with which we’ve been blessed. Give us the ability to hear your music and dance in the rain!

Be happy in the moment, that’s enough. Each moment is all we need, not more. [Mother Teresa]

Let them praise his name with dancing and make music to him with timbrel and harp.  [Psalm 149:3 (NIV)]

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YOU’RE WELCOME!

Truly, anyone welcoming my messenger is welcoming me. And to welcome me is to welcome the Father who sent me. [John 13:20 (TLB)]

IMG_6094webbWhen our children were growing up, like most parents, we had certain “magic” words in our house. We tried to teach our little ones the basic rules of politeness. When you do something wrong—say, “I’m sorry.” If you want something—say, “Please.” When you’re given something—say, “Thank you.” If you do something for someone else—say, “You’re welcome.”

I read a delightful story about a little boy who apparently had been learning the “magic” words at his house. When saying his first prayers, he knew there was something he had to say to God but got a bit confused. “Dear God,” he started and then continued with, “You’re welcome!” I wonder, though, did he really use the wrong phrase? Before thanking God for His bountiful gifts, perhaps we should be sure to welcome Him into our lives. Many of us have a welcome mat at our front doors; do we have a welcome mat at the entrance to our hearts? God’s not a door-to-door salesman or delivery man to be kept standing outside on the porch; He’s an honored guest. Before we get into the nitty gritty of our prayers, before we thank Him for gifts received or ask for future blessings, perhaps we should first welcome Him and ask Him inside.

One of our pastors always starts her morning prayer with, “Good morning, Lord, it’s so nice to see your face!” Much like saying, “You’re welcome!” she greets God with her words, acknowledges His presence, and opens wide the doors to our hearts. May He come into our lives, not just during prayers, but at all times and in all places. He is, indeed, welcome!

O Jerusalem, Jerusalem! The city that murders the prophets. The city that stones those sent to help her. How often I have wanted to gather your children together even as a hen protects her brood under her wings, but you wouldn’t let me. And now—now your house is left desolate. And you will never again see me until you say, “Welcome to him who comes in the name of the Lord.” [Luke 13:34-35 (TLB)]

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DOING A MITZVAH

Jesus replied, “‘You must love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, and all your mind.’ This is the first and greatest commandment. A second is equally important: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’  The entire law and all the demands of the prophets are based on these two commandments.” {Matthew 22: 37-40 (NLT)]

florida cooter laying eggsIn Hebrew, mitzvah means command and the mitzvoth are the 613 commandments that came from God in the Old Testament. In Reformed Judaism (and Yiddish), mitzvah has come to mean “good deed.” In actuality, I’m sure any good deed falls somewhere within one of those 613 original commands! Moreover, isn’t every good deed a way to connect with God and express both our love for Him and for our neighbor?

Recently, we did what my Jewish friends would call a “mitzvah.” As my husband and I started out on the boardwalk, we politely greeted a young woman. Hoping to walk by ourselves, we headed in the opposite direction. The woman, however, asked if she could join us. Although not what we’d planned, something about her told me she needed more than a guide through the swamp; she needed someone with whom to talk. My husband walked ahead, occasionally stopping to wait for us at various benches along the way. She and I strolled along, taking pictures and chatting. Although I pointed out birds and flowers, most of the conversation centered on her, her pain and uncertainty. We talked about trusting God, having faith, and church.

As a result of her joining us, our walk at the swamp took more than twice the usual time. Our mitzvah, however, came with a reward. Yes, we saw the usual: anhingas, herons, and a limpkin. Then, as we arrived at the raised viewing platform, we glanced up to see three swallow-tail kites. Had we been anywhere else in the swamp, we’d never have spotted them. Seeing those graceful birds with their long pointed wings and forked tails as they soared effortlessly in the sky was an “Aha!” moment from God. After a few minutes, the birds flew off and we walked on. Later, we stopped to look over the prairie. Our new-found friend saw a green anole and we patiently waited while she tried to get a shot of it. Had we not paused, we wouldn’t have seen a doe and her fawn as they pranced across the field, kindly stopping once for a photo opportunity. This rare sighting was another one of God’s “Aha!” moments. As we continued our walk along a side trail, we warned our companion that we’ve never seen any wildlife there. To our surprise, we came upon a Florida cooter just starting to make her nest. We stopped and watched as she dug in the soft dirt. Then, to our delight, she dropped her eggs and carefully buried them. While I’ve seen turtles laying eggs, this was the first time I’ve ever watched the whole process, start to finish, and from the “business end” of the turtle. This was the “hat trick” of “Aha!” moments for the day. Yet, we wouldn’t have been witness to any of them had we not taken the time to give a little of ourselves to someone who needed some companionship.

Jesus told the Pharisees the two greatest commands: love God and love your neighbor. Those two mitzvoth were the basis for all the rest of those 613 Old Testament commands. Every time we are helpful, generous, kind, compassionate, responsive, caring, supportive, and obliging we are obeying His command and doing a mitzvah! Cynics often say, “No good deed goes unpunished.” I prefer thinking that a good deed is its own reward! Moreover, while every good deed is its own reward, God usually puts a little something extra there for us, even if it is three kites, two deer, and a turtle in labor!

Kind deeds often come back to the givers in fairer shapes than they go. [Louisa M. Alcott]

Give, and you will receive. Your gift will return to you in full—pressed down, shaken together to make room for more, running over, and poured into your lap. The amount you give will determine the amount you get back. [Luke 6:38 (NLT)]

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A MATTER OF PERSPECTIVE

And the people of Israel also began to complain. “Oh, for some meat!” they exclaimed. “We remember the fish we used to eat for free in Egypt. And we had all the cucumbers, melons, leeks, onions, and garlic we wanted. [Numbers 11:4b-5 (NLT)]

 balloon over serengettiIt’s a matter of perspective. When in Egypt, the Israelites hated being slaves to their cruel masters yet, every time they faced danger or difficulty, they longed to return there. This past March, my Florida friends wore gloves, jackets, and hats and complained of the cold when the temperature fell to 60 degrees. That same month, we were in the mountains of Colorado. When it got to 60 degrees there, off came the hats, gloves and jackets and people ate outside! Yesterday, my mother-in-law commented on the unseasonable heat in Illinois—it was 80 degrees! On the other hand, when it only got to 80 here in Florida, the weatherman called it “unseasonably cool.” It’s a matter of perspective.

“I’m starving!” we say when it’s been several hours since last eating, yet one in nine people suffer from chronic undernourishment. Truly starving, they may not even remember when last they ate anything. We complain about waiting thirty minutes in the physician’s waiting room, yet more than 1 billion people around the world have no access to health care. They’d gladly sit there for days if it meant getting medical attention. Weighing less than 93-pounds and standing less than 58-inches, my healthy and active 12-year old grand is called “small” for his age. In Africa or Asia, where nearly 51 million children are stunted in growth, he’d be the big kid in his class. Our well will be chlorinated this month and we’re annoyed about not having any water for several hours. A day’s inconvenience every few years sounds wonderful to those 663 million people have no access at all to safe drinking water. We women complain about the long lines in public restrooms yet one in three people lack access to any toilet, let alone the ten stalls at the theater! It’s just a matter of perspective.

A website called the Global Rich List puts one’s financial wealth in perspective. For example, here in the US, if you earned the median income of $51,939, you are in the top .28% of global wealth (note that decimal point)! While you’re not likely to see your name in Forbes magazine, that makes you the 16,839,173rd richest person on earth! Indeed, it is all a matter of perspective and, sometimes, we lose ours completely!

Father, forgive us when we look at life merely from our viewpoint—when we only notice or care about what directly touches our lives. Give us a global perspective so that we see the world from your viewpoint, not ours. Help us remember that the Good News is more than just your good word; it is also our good works! We have a world in need of both your message and our compassion. You have a world-sized role of each one of us—show us what you want us to do and how you want us to do it.

When a poor person dies of hunger, it has not happened because God did not take care of him or her. It has happened because neither you nor I wanted to give that person what he or she needed. [Mother Teresa]

This same Good News that came to you is going out all over the world. It is bearing fruit everywhere by changing lives, just as it changed your lives from the day you first heard and understood the truth about God’s wonderful grace. [Colossians 1:6 (NLT)]

Learn to do right; seek justice. Defend the oppressed. Take up the cause of the fatherless; plead the case of the widow. [Isaiah 1:17 (NLT)]

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BREATHE ON ME

Then the Lord God took some soil from the ground and formed a man out of it; he breathed life-giving breath into his nostrils and the man began to live. [Genesis 2:7 (GNT)] 

You were made from soil, and you will become soil again. [Genesis 3:19 (GNT)]

blazing star (prairie)Today, I thought again about that handful of dirt in the farmer’s hand and remembered the creation story. God scooped up a handful of soil, breathed life into it and made man. I don’t care whether the words are figurative or literal or if they support the creationist or evolutionary points of view. All I know is that God made something out of nothing then and continues to do so now!

He takes our worthless parts and gives them value. He imparts our exhaustion with vitality, our weakness with strength, and our loneliness with love. He makes whole our brokenness, fills our emptiness, and replaces despondency with hope and sorrow with joy. He gives sight to the part that is unseeing, perception to the part that is unhearing, and a voice to the part that is mute. He replaces our shame and disgrace with forgiveness and mercy. He takes our soiled parts, washes them in His blood, and makes them clean. He fills that cold void in our core with hearts of compassion and scoops us out of darkness into the light. He holds us in the palm of His hand, takes all of our deadness and decay, and breathes new life into us.

Thank you God, for taking this handful of soil and filling me with life anew!

Breathe on me, Breath of God, fill me with life anew,
that I may love what thou dost love, and do what thou wouldst do.
Breathe on me, Breath of God, until my heart is pure,
until with thee I will one will, to do and to endure.
Breathe on me, Breath of God, till I am wholly thine,
till all this earthly part of me glows with thy fire divine.
Breathe on me, Breath of God, so shall I never die,
but live with thee the perfect life of thine eternity.
[“Breathe on Me, Breath of God” by Edwin Hatch]

Anyone who is joined to Christ is a new being; the old is gone, the new has come. [2 Corinthians 5:17 (GNT)]

But if Christ lives in you, the Spirit is life for you because you have been put right with God, even though your bodies are going to die because of sin. If the Spirit of God, who raised Jesus from death, lives in you, then he who raised Christ from death will also give life to your mortal bodies by the presence of his Spirit in you. [Romans 8:10-11 (GNT)]

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