Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud. [1 Corinthians 13:4 (NLT)]
So get rid of all evil behavior. Be done with all deceit, hypocrisy, jealousy, and all unkind speech. [1 Peter 2:1 (NLT)]
Jealousy – that green-eyed monster – certainly caused a lot of problems throughout the Bible. The first case of sibling rivalry occurred when Cain, jealous that God approved his brother’s sacrifice but not his, killed Abel. Saul was jealous of David’s popularity and battles were fought, the Jews slandered Paul and Silas because they were jealous of the large crowds that gathered to hear them preach, Jacob was jealous of Esau’s relationship with Isaac, Joseph’s brothers sold him into slavery out of jealousy and the prodigal’s brother became jealous when his father threw a party for the black sheep of the family.
“Don’t be jealous,” was often the response when any of us kids complained to our parents about what seemed preferential treatment for a sibling or when we expressed a desire for someone else’s possessions. Knowing jealousy was clearly wrong, I was confused during church services when I read, “For I the Lord thy God am a jealous God,” in my prayer book. Was jealously a privilege denied me but given to God? If it was OK for Him to be jealous why couldn’t I be a bit jealous of Becky’s new baby doll or that my sister got all the new clothes while I got the hand-me-downs? Granted, that was a child’s reasoning, but it can be difficult to reconcile God’s jealousy with the Bible’s many commands not to be jealous.
When they were given the Ten Commandments, the Israelites had just spent over 400 years in Egypt, a land of many gods. They had no problem when Yahweh told them to worship Him. Their problem arose because the God of the Israelites didn’t want to be one of many gods; He was to be their only God! He didn’t want to share their affections with anything or anyone else. Unlike the Israelites, we’re not tempted to worship Baal, Osiris, Asherah, or the sun god Ra. Nevertheless, we have a jealous God who continues to insist upon our exclusive loyalty to him. He won’t tolerate our fickle affections to cause us to worship at the altars of money, power, fame, technology, success, materialism, youth, sex, or self.
God has everything and needs nothing but He is jealous of the only things we have that He doesn’t—our affection, worship, honor and service—things that must be freely given by us to Him. As in a marriage, God wants an exclusive relationship with us—nothing and no one is to take priority over Him. Although some translations use the word “zealous” instead of “jealous”, there is no word in our limited human vocabulary that can fully describe God’s amazing, all-encompassing and intense love and desire for us. We are His and He is ours and God simply wants what is due to Him—our all.
An interview with God would appear to be a journalist’s dream opportunity! As I started thinking of questions, I realized I wouldn’t want to know the answers for many. I don’t want to know when or how I’ll die and I certainly wouldn’t want to be privy to that information about anyone else. I wouldn’t want to know exactly what will become of friends who don’t believe or who will go where at judgment. A friend said he might ask how he was doing but, fully aware of his failings, realized he probably wouldn’t want to hear God’s answer. Some friends in Chicago might want to ask Him about the Cubs but, unless they were gamblers, knowing the answer would be a season spoiler. There is much that God could tell me that I wouldn’t want to know because I could never live with the weight of His answers.
Since Jews are prohibited from possessing any food products containing leavening (chametz) during Passover, a Muslim Arab-Israeli man in Abu Ghosh now owns most of the bread, pastries and beer in Israel. As they have for many years, Israel’s two chief rabbis sold all of the leaven food from state-owned companies, the prison system, and the national emergency stores to him. He symbolically purchased the chametz for the duration of Passover by making a small down payment. Having promised to pay an enormous sum at the end of Passover, at week’s end he will tell the rabbis that he can’t pay up, the deal will be canceled, his down payment returned, and Israel again will own its yeast-laden products. Here in the U.S., some Jewish families “sell” their chametz to non-Jewish friends and then put the food in an out-of-the way cupboard. Technically, while still on their property, it’s not really theirs because they’ve “leased” the cupboard to the Gentile buyer. After Passover, the lease expires and the food is sold back to its original owner. While this may circumvent the law, I’m not sure it’s what God had in mind when He commanded, “There must be no yeast bread or any yeast at all found within the borders of your land during this time.” [Exodus 13:7]
Oh, the depth of the riches and wisdom and knowledge of God! How unsearchable are his judgments and how inscrutable his ways! [Romans 11:33 (ESV)]