Then Jesus said to his disciples, “Those who want to come with me must say no to the things they want, pick up their crosses, and follow me.” [Matthew 16:24 (GW)]
“I’m so busy!” If there’s even a remote possibility that we might be asked to do something we’d rather avoid, we can cut off the request at the pass by starting the conversation with those words. It’s the perfect out. On the other hand, when said to us, we can’t argue with it.
Both Luke and Mark tells the story of four men who weren’t too busy to carry their paralyzed friend on a pallet to see Jesus in Capernaum. Once there, they were unable to get their friend through the mass of people crowding into the house where Jesus was preaching. Undeterred by the crowd, they hauled the paralyzed man up to the roof, dug a hole through the thatch, and lowered him down to the room. Determined to bring the paralyzed man to Jesus, these friends weren’t too busy, even when helping him became a major undertaking and an engineering feat!
Consider Job’s friends—despite their business and family obligations, they weren’t too busy to drop everything and travel from their homes to offer him solace. These men didn’t just stop by to leave a covered casserole and offer quick condolences; they silently sat with Job for seven days. While there were errors in their theology, their intentions were good.
Mark tells us about a blind man in Bethsaida whose friends brought him to Jesus and begged the Lord to touch and heal him. The man regained sight because his friends weren’t too busy to bring him to the Lord. Consider the seven men the early church commissioned to serve the needs of the widows in their midst. These men already had jobs and other obligations but Stephen, Philip, and the others weren’t too busy to take on an extra task for the church.
No matter how filled our calendars are, we all manage to find time to do the things important to us. Even though Martha was busy preparing supper for Jesus and the disciples, she could have found time to listen to Jesus. It’s simply a matter of priorities. How much of our busyness is necessary and how much is needless or unproductive? How much of our time is spent working ineffectively, keeping busy while accomplishing nothing, or giving undue importance to trivialities? Are we intentional about the way we spend our time? While God doesn’t expect us to give an automatic “yes” to every request, He probably doesn’t want an automatic “no” either and “I’m busy” is just an easier way of saying, “No!”
Being busy can hinder more than our relationships with people; it hinders our time with God! No matter what’s on our schedule, we must never be too busy for Him as was Martha. Yet, we often start our prayers with that very complaint or answer His call with that response. He knows exactly how busy we are and how we spend (or waste) our time and energy. We need to listen and pray before deciding we’re too busy for friends, family, or God. Even though He runs the entire universe, God is never too busy for us; how can we possibly think we’re too busy for Him? Jesus told us the greatest commandment was to love God and the next was to love our neighbor as ourselves. May we never find ourselves too busy to do either one!
One reason we are so harried and hurried is that we make yesterday and tomorrow our business, when all that legitimately concerns us is today. If we really have too much to do, there are some items on the agenda which God did not put there. Let us submit the list to Him and ask Him to indicate which items we must delete. There is always time to do the will of God. If we are too busy to do that, we are too busy. [Elisabeth Elliot]
Tithe means ten percent and the concept of the making a tithe is first found in Genesis. After being blessed by Melchizedek, the king of Salem and a “priest of God Most High,” Abram/Abraham gave him a tenth of all the goods he recovered from Kedorlaomer’s army after rescuing Lot. [14:20] After Jacob asked for God’s protection and provision, he pledged a tenth of his future blessings to Him. [28:22]
In 1 Kings 21, we learn of Naboth, the owner of a vineyard adjacent to King Ahab’s palace in Jezreel. A choice piece of real estate, Ahab wanted it for himself and offered to purchase or exchange it for other land. Property, however, wasn’t to be treated as a real estate investment—it was to remain in the family to which it had been allotted. Because Jewish law prohibited Naboth from selling his ancestral land, he rejected the king’s offer. Angry at his neighbor’s refusal’s, Ahab acted like a spoiled child, took to his bed, and refused to eat. Upon learning the reason for her husband’s sulking, Jezebel hatched a devious plan. She arranged for false accusations to be made against Naboth that would result in his immediate death. Jezebel’s evil plot went as planned and, upon news of their neighbor’s death, she told Ahab the land was his and he took it for himself!
We tend to think of fasting during Lent as abstaining from certain foods, drinks, or activities. Several years ago, however, I was asked, “What if you fasted regret? What if your friends fasted comparison? What would be the fruit of fasting stinginess?” Those questions proposed an entirely different kind of fast than refraining from sweets or social media. In truth, fasting from things like self-righteousness, discontent, and criticism is probably harder (and more meaningful) than giving up energy drinks or dining out.
Tomorrow, December 6, is the Feast of St. Nicholas (or Sinterklass). Although it is difficult to know fact from fiction, we do know that St. Nicholas was born around 270 AD in Patara, a city in Lycia (modern day Turkey). The son of wealthy and devout parents, it was his uncle, the Bishop of Patara, who took charge of his spiritual life. Nicholas became the Bishop of Myra in Turkey, quite likely attended the council of Nicaea, spent seven years imprisoned under Diocletian Persecution, and died on December 6, around 343 AD. While we don’t know much about the man, he must have had a great impact on the early Christian church because, by 450 AD, churches in Asia Minor and Greece were named in his honor and, by the mid-6th century, the Emperor Justinian dedicated a church to him in Constantinople.
Hebrews 11 lists the great examples of faith found in the Hebrew Scriptures. Every story, however, has a supporting cast and, while we may not remember or even know their names, they played an important role in everyone’s story. We know Moses is one of those heroes of faith but what of the midwives Shiphrah and Puah? If they hadn’t defied Pharaoh’s orders to kill newborn Hebrew boys, Moses wouldn’t have lived long enough to be found by Pharaoh’s daughter let alone lead Israel to the Promised Land!