NO WORDS OF COMFORT

Don’t let your hearts be troubled. Trust in God, and trust also in me. There is more than enough room in my Father’s home. If this were not so, would I have told you that I am going to prepare a place for you? When everything is ready, I will come and get you, so that you will always be with me where I am. [John 14:1-3 (NLT)]

water lilyThe next day would have been Sally’s wedding anniversary but, because it marked the six-month anniversary of her husband’s death, there would be no celebration. Instead of flowers, dinner, and romance, there would be tears. That morning, Sally called her step-mother, Sue, to share her dread of the following day. When telling us this, Sue admitted to being at a loss for words of consolation. A woman of faith and an ordained pastor, Sue’s difficulty in finding comforting words was because her step-daughter is Jewish. When Sue married Sally’s Jewish father, she respected her new family’s faith just as they respected hers. They knew her beliefs and what she did for a living and Sue gladly answers their questions. Nevertheless, she chooses her words carefully when speaking of the Lord and neither evangelizes nor condemns. Although her words that morning were as reassuring as they could be without speaking of Jesus, Sue knew they were nowhere near as comforting as they could have been.

In the Hebrew Bible, Sheol is mentioned as the place of the dead and the idea of a resurrection appears in Daniel and Isaiah. The Talmud contains references to heaven (Gan Eden), hell (Gehinnom), and the World to Come. Unfortunately, the who, when, what, how, and where details are missing and Judaism is ambiguous (and often contradictory) about what actually happens when one dies. Sue said she listened carefully during her son-in-law’s funeral and interment for words of comfort but heard none. After reading the Jewish funeral prayer El Maleh Rachamin and their Mourner’s Kaddish, I had to agree.

Had Sally been a believer, Sue might have told her daughter-in-law that she was not alone in distress and reminded her of the time Jesus walked on water and stilled the storm. We have a God who knows when we’re in trouble, is willing to walk on water to reach us, and will bring us peace in the middle of the tempest! Sue would have told Sally how much God loves her—so much so that He gave His one and only son so that all who believe would not perish but have eternal life. She would have comforted her with the story of Lazarus and Jesus’ words to Martha that He was the resurrection and the life and that anyone who believed in Him would live even after dying. Then again, maybe the widow would have found Revelation’s promise that He will wipe every tear and there will be no more tears, mourning, or death comforting. Sadly, those words are of little cheer to one who refuses to believe.

No words can take away the sorrow of a young woman suddenly losing her beloved husband, the father of her three small children, but there is much in our faith that can ease that pain. No Christian is left to face sorrow alone; we have a Savior, a Comforter, and the reassuring and powerful promises of Scripture. Thank you, Jesus.

Death to the Christian is the funeral of all his sorrows and evils and the resurrection of all his joys. [James H. Aughey]

I am leaving you with a gift—peace of mind and heart. And the peace I give is a gift the world cannot give. So don’t be troubled or afraid. [John 14:27 (NLT)]

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HONING

As iron sharpens iron, so a friend sharpens a friend. [27:17 (NLT)]

This proverb about iron sharpening iron reminds me of Sunday dinners when I was a girl. After the roast beef was placed in front of my father, he picked up the carving knife and a steel rod. With dramatic flair, he would run the knife back and forth against the steel before carving the meat. For the perfect slice of beef, he used iron to “sharpen” iron.

At the time, I thought he was sharpening the blade; instead, he was honing it. Whenever a knife is used, its sharp edge begins to bend and catch on whatever is being cut. Pulling a knife’s blade along a honing steel brings its rough edges back into an upright position so the knife can perform at its best. A whetstone is necessary to sharpen a dull or damaged knife. But, because it rubs away some of the blade to create a brand-new edge, the more a knife is sharpened, the thinner the blade gets and the shorter its lifespan.

Just as there is a difference between a steel honing rod and a whetstone, constructive comments and words of correction differ from harsh criticism and disparagement—one enriches and improves while the other gradually diminishes. When called to do a little sharpening, we should proceed prayerfully and gently, always remembering that we should be more like honing steels than whetstones. Rather than grinding off any mettle, our purpose is to enhance by smoothing out the rough edges. Moses’ father-in-law Jethro did some honing when he pointed out Moses’ mistake in thinking he could manage two million people by himself. Jethro offered excellent advice on how to delegate responsibility and Moses became a better leader because he listened.

While a carving knife has no choice about accepting that steel rod, we do. Nevertheless, if we want to maintain our sharpness, be properly aligned, and work at our best, a little honing might be necessary. Solomon’s son Rehoboam certainly didn’t take his father’s warning that, “Fools think their own way is right, but the wise listen to others.” [Pro 12:15] Rather than accepting sage counsel from his father’s trusted advisors, he turned to his sycophantic friends because they would tell him what he wanted to hear! His foolishness and their poor advice resulted in a divided kingdom of Israel.

God puts wise people in our lives for a reason and it’s for more than encouragement. Matthew Henry said their purpose is to “improve both others and ourselves…to provoke one another to love and to good works and so to make one another wiser and better.” Like Moses, we can accept the correction that comes from those who love us or, like Rehoboam, we can resist the honing and insist on doing it our way. Just as we are tested by the way we respond to praise, we are tested by the way we respond to correction and constructive criticism. In both cases, we must remain humble and thankful.

The trouble with most of us is that we would rather be ruined by praise than saved by criticism. [Norman Vincent Peale]

If you listen to constructive criticism, you will be at home among the wise. If you reject discipline, you only harm yourself; but if you listen to correction, you grow in understanding. [Proverbs 15:31-32 (NLT)]

Wounds from a sincere friend are better than many kisses from an enemy. [Proverbs 27:6 (NLT)]

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THE BLESSING OF WORK

The Lord God took the man and put him in the garden of Eden to work it and keep it. [Genesis 2:15 (ESV)]

Today is Labor Day—the unofficial last day of summer. On a day originally intended to celebrate the accomplishments of workers, it’s somewhat ironic that most of us are doing as little work as possible. Nevertheless, whether it’s just making the bed, grilling the burgers, washing the car, or being called in for an emergency surgery, we’ll all do some work today. We appreciate the day off but we’d much prefer a full-blown vacation—with no chores, deadlines, schedules, or business calls, texts, and emails. On the ideal vacation, all we have to do is relax and enjoy ourselves.

Everyday life, however, requires work of some kind. Some days that work might be stimulating but, other days, it can downright boring. While our labor can be enjoyable, it also can be grueling or hectic. Most of our tasks aren’t what we’d describe as fun. Some are physically demanding, others are tedious, and some are just plain gross! The list of tasks seems never-ending and much of the what we did yesterday, we’ll do again today, and probably tomorrow, as well! Nevertheless, work is a gift from God and, quite likely, the gift we least value.

Surveys show that about 60% of our waking hours are spent working in some way or another. The American Time Use Survey estimates that, out of their 16.2 waking hours, the average employed person spends 8.8 hours working at their job, 1.8 hours on household activities, and 1.2 hours caring for others. No matter how much we love our family, doing the laundry, pulling weeds, grocery shopping, changing diapers, and helping the kids with homework is work. With so much of our life spent in labor, God wants us to enjoy our work and, thankfully, he’s given us the ability to do so.

God worked for six days creating the universe, Jesus accomplished the work God gave him [John 17:4], and the Holy Spirit is working in us right now. Because God is inherently good, anything He does is good, so we know work can’t be bad or evil. It’s simply a fact of life. God didn’t put Adam in the garden to sit in a lounge chair and drink margaritas. He gave him a garden to tend and watch over. Work was a gift not a curse but, because of our sin, God’s curse affected our work! It was only after the fall that work became toil, presented difficulties, and was prone to failure and unintended consequences. Work became more important in our lives simply because it took more labor to yield the desired results!

God wants us to enjoy all aspects of life, not just holidays like Labor Day or those two weeks in the sun while on vacation. Holidays and vacations are just the icing on the cake; He wants us to delight in the cake as well. When we work to the best of our ability with an uncomplaining (and appreciative) heart, work becomes a privilege and a way to honor our Heavenly Father.

Lord, we thank you for the gift of labor. Forgive any grumbling, shoddy workmanship, or lackluster effort on our part. Renew us with your Spirit. Fill us with enthusiasm, competence, and fortitude as we work so that the fruit of our labor brings honor to you and joy and self-respect to us.

Work is a blessing. God has so arranged the world that work is necessary, and He gives us hands and strength to do it. The enjoyment of leisure would be nothing if we had only leisure. It is the joy of work well done that enables us to enjoy rest, just as it is the experiences of hunger and thirst that make food and drink such pleasures. [Elisabeth Elliot]

Commit your work to the Lord, and your plans will be established. [Proverbs 16:3 (ESV)]

Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the inheritance as your reward. You are serving the Lord Christ. [Colossians 3:23-24 (ESV)]

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