Take Responsibility: Do the Right Thing

When Daniel learned that the document (a decree than anyone who prayed to any god or person except King Darius would be thrown into a lions’ den) had been signed, he went to his house. An upper room in his house had windows that opened in the direction of Jerusalem. Three times each day he got down on his knees and prayed to his God. He had always praised God this way. [Daniel 6:10 (GW)]

How many times have we heard children say, “It’s not my fault; he (or she) made me do it!”? Children think this excuse absolves them of responsibility for their actions. As adults we continue to make unwise choices and often justify them by saying we had no choice. God, however, always gives us a choice: yes or no, some or none, right or wrong, our way or His. Unfortunately, the right choice is often not the one we want to make. Moreover, the easy choice is not necessarily the right one. The right choice may require sacrifice; it may even put us into a modern-day lion’s den. God never promised that life would be easy; but he did promise that we’d never be alone in our struggles. Daniel stayed true to his God and survived the lion’s den; we, too, will survive if we stay true to our faith.

For God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity, but of power, love, and self-discipline. [2 Timothy 1:7 (NLT)]

In the long run, we shape our lives and we shape ourselves. And the choices we make are ultimately our own responsibility. [Eleanor Roosevelt.]

A Catalog of Blessings

We are confident that God listens to us if we ask for anything that has his approval. We know that he listens to our requests. So we know that we already have what we ask him for. [John 5:14-15 (GW)]

God isn’t our personal Neiman Marcus, EBay or Amazon. Making prayer requests is not like looking through a heavenly catalog of blessings and getting to check the items we wish to receive. Like every good parent, God has some guidelines for His gifts to us and our requests must meet with His approval. God certainly isn’t going to offer any divine assistance in sin! Because He loves us, His goal is not our pleasure but rather our salvation! God’s gifts are going to reflect that objective.

Lord, give me the insight to know when my prayers are wrong and patience and persistence when they are right!

We look upon prayer as a means of getting things for ourselves, but the Biblical purpose of prayer is that we may get to know God himself. [Oswald Chambers]

Love Isn’t a Feeling: It is a Choice

2014-1-7Three things will last forever – faith, hope, and love – and the greatest of these is love. [1 Corinthians 13:13 (NLT)]

Guide us in our relationships, O Lord. Instead of trying to improve those we love, show us how to be better people ourselves. Remind us daily that love is patient and kind, never vindictive or intolerant. Help us choose to be generous and understanding rather than selfish or indifferent, considerate and respectful rather than insensitive or rude. Let your love lead us to forgive, not blame, and honor, not scorn. Bless the ones we love. Keep us mindful that maintaining any relationship requires a conscious choice and continual commitment if it is going to withstand the challenges of life.

For the Least of These

Then the good people will answer, “Lord, when did we see you hungry and give you food, or thirsty and give you something to drink? When did we see you alone and away from home and invite you into our house? When did we see you without clothes and give you something to wear? When did we see you sick or in prison and care for you?”

Then the King will answer, “I tell you the truth, anything you did for even the least of my people here, you also did for me.” [Matthew 25:37-40 (NCV)]

Hunger, poverty, disease, war, homelessness: these problems are so daunting, so overwhelming, that it is easy to step back and say there is nothing we can do. I recently met a young man who decided there was something he could do. After seeing extreme poverty in his work as an engineer, he founded a charity that helps the hungry mothers and children who live in garbage dumps in Zambia, Sierra Leone and India. His organization, completely staffed by volunteers, now provides these people with food, clean water and the hope of a future.

Last week, I also learned of a teacher in one of our nation’s cities who was shocked to learn that several of his students went hungry on the weekends. The breakfast and lunches provided by the school during the week were the only meals on which they could depend. He started a group that now provides food bags on Fridays that help these children get through the weekend without going hungry.

These men did more than throw their money at a problem; they put their compassion to work. Although they’ve not solved the larger issues of poverty, they have made a major difference in the lives of some of God’s children. They didn’t let the fact that they couldn’t do it all keep them from doing something.

Dear Lord, there is so much need in our troubled world. Is there something I can do to make life better for the least of your children? Help me to identify the task and give me the strength and skill to accomplish your work.

Then they will reply, “Lord, when did we ever see you hungry or thirsty or a stranger or naked or sick or in prison, and not help you?” And he will answer, “I tell you the truth, when you refused to help the least of these my brothers and sisters, you were refusing to help me.” [Matthew 25:44-45 (NCV)]

Mom’s Advice

Stop being angry! Turn from your rage! Do not lose your temper — it only leads to harm. [Psalm 37:8 (NLT)]

Our mothers used to tell us to count to ten before responding in anger; that’s still good advice. In those moments when our patience is strained, when we’re exasperated, or when we’re particularly irritated or vexed, we could also try saying, “Come, Lord Jesus” or “Patience, please, dear Lord.” So, while we’re counting to ten, let’s be sure to count on God at the same time.

 

Miracles

Then Jesus said to the Roman officer, “Go back home. Because you believed, it has happened.” And the young servant was healed that same hour. [Matthew 8:13 (NLT)]

The centurion had to go to Jesus before his servant was healed, the leper had to kneel before Jesus before being made clean, the paralytic was brought to Jesus before he could walk, the bleeding woman had to reach out and touch His cloak before being healed, and the blind men had to call out to Him before regaining their sight. What did all of these people have in common? They believed in Jesus and their belief led them to go to Him. If they had believed and not gone to Jesus or if they had gone to Jesus and not believed, a miracle wouldn’t have occurred. They did the work before Jesus performed the miracle. Of course, not every illness will be miraculously healed nor every problem miraculously solved, but there can never be a miracle in our lives if we don’t go to the Lord and believe!

Then he touched their eyes and said, “Because of your faith, it will happen.” [Matthew 9:29 (NLT)]