Do They Know We Are Christians by Our Love?

Your love for one another will prove to the world that you are my disciples. [John 13:35 (NLT)]

Instead of wearing a cross, having a bumper sticker quoting John 3:16, or even quoting Scripture regularly in our conversations, there is another and better way to show the world we are Christians. The world will know we are Christians by the way we treat other people, no matter what their faith (or position) may happen to be.

Today I ask myself, does the world know I am Christ’s disciple by the way I treat my family, fellow workers, employees, and friends? How about all of the other people I encounter in a day: the waiters and bus boys, sales clerks and bank tellers, the mailman, bus driver and janitor? What about that annoying neighbor, the more annoying telemarketer, the homeless man on the sidewalk and the rude driver who cut me off in traffic? Do I treat everyone with love and respect or just the people that I already like or value?

“They’ll Know We Are Christians by Our Love” [written by Peter Scholtes]

We will walk with each other, we will walk hand in hand
And together we’ll spread the news that God is in our land.
And they’ll know we are Christians by our love, by our love,
They will know we are Christians by our love

Positive Thinking

And now, dear brothers and sisters, one final thing. Fix your thoughts on what is true, and honorable, and right, and pure, and lovely, and admirable. Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise. [Philippians 4:8-9 (NLT)]

Lord, direct my thoughts. Guide me so that I am thankful for what I have and not disappointed about what is missing. Help me focus on merits instead of imperfections and possibilities rather than drawbacks. Instead of weighing other people’s faults, open my eyes to their virtues. If I brood about my failures, remind me of past achievements and when I’m apprehensive about tomorrow, help me consider the possibilities of future joy.

He Doesn’t Keep Score

If you, God, kept records on wrongdoings, who would stand a chance? As it turns out, forgiveness is your habit, and that’s why you’re worshiped. [Psalm 130:3-4 (MSG)]

If God doesn’t keep score, how can I? Father, help me wipe away any pain, anger or disappointment still harbored in my heart. May I be as generous with my forgiveness as you are with yours.

God’s Rulebook

Jesus replied, “You must love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, and all your mind. This is the first and greatest commandment. A second is equally important: Love your neighbor as yourself. The entire law and all the demands of the prophets are based on these two commandments.” [Matthew 22:37-39 (NLT)]

How could Jesus condense over 600 rules and regulations of the Old Testament into two simple laws? Actually, it was pretty easy since we can’t do one without the other! If we love God, we also love our neighbor and, let’s face it, it’s impossible to love our neighbor without loving God! Moreover, once we love our neighbor, our behavior toward him changes. We won’t envy or gossip about him, we won’t violate his marriage, or lie about him. If we love our neighbor, we certainly won’t steal from him, harm or kill him. God’s rulebook is quite simple. We have only two rules: love God and love our fellow man.

Don’t Forget Your Prayers

Listen to my voice in the morning, Lord. Each morning I bring my requests to you and wait expectantly. [Psalm 5:3 (NLT)]

How much time do we spend getting ready in the morning, doing things like showering, fixing our hair, shaving or putting on make-up, choosing our clothes, dressing, eating breakfast, and maybe even exercising? We always seem to have enough time to tend to our physical needs, but how much time do we spend getting ready spiritually for the day? We need to tend to both our outer appearance and our inner thoughts. If we don’t forget our shoes, why is it so easy to forget our prayers?

 

I’m Sorry

An offended friend is harder to win back than a fortified city. Arguments separate friends like a gate locked with bars. [Proverbs 18:19 (NLT)]

Father, help us tear down the obstacles in our strained relationships. Show us how to remedy the tension between us and those who have hurt us or those we have hurt. Help us to forgive and to be willing to ask for forgiveness from others. Fill our hearts with love for all people, even those who have caused us pain.

In some families, please is described as the magic word. In our house, however, it was sorry. [Margaret Laurence]