Encourage each other every day while you have the opportunity. [Hebrews 3:13a (GW)
After spending time with my youngest grands (one and three), I noticed how eager we are to offer encouragement to little ones as they learn new skills. They get positive reinforcement when they take their first steps, use the potty, don’t spill, manage the stairs or say, “Please.” As people get older, however, we’re much stingier with our words of approval and encouragement. In fact, when we fill out comment cards or make on-line comments, more often it is to criticize than to praise.
Our cars need fuel to run and people do, too. Words of encouragement help us refuel when we’re low on confidence or feeling a bit unsure of ourselves. Even those people who seem self-assured and assertive need a little refueling with encouraging words from time to time.
Some praise goes a long way in helping a tired secretary or cashier through the day. A word of thanks is always welcomed by a teacher or waitress. The sales trainee would appreciate some encouragement and your barista would value a smile or a favorable comment. A compliment is always well received by a spouse; even our pastors and worship leaders could use a boost now and then. Is there someone in your life who might be running short on fuel? Why not help them fill up with some of God’s love and encouragement?