Then Jesus said to his disciples, “Those who want to come with me must say no to the things they want, pick up their crosses, and follow me. [Matthew 16:24 (GW)]
“I’m so busy!” If there’s even a remote possibility we might be asked to do something we’d rather avoid, we can cut the request off at the pass by starting the conversation with those words. It’s the perfect out. On the other hand, when said to us, we can’t argue with it. I have a relative who has a variation on this strategy. After asking how she can help, without pausing for the response, she launches into a litany of the many exhausting demands on her time and challenges already facing her. Given how busy she claims to be, there’s no way anyone would dare ask for her help!
Mark tells the story of friends who carried a paralyzed man on a pallet to see Jesus in Capernaum. Unable to get him through the mass of people crowding into the house where Jesus was preaching, they hauled him up to the roof, dug a hole through the thatch, and lowered the man down to the room. Even though a quick trip to take their friend to see Jesus became a major undertaking and engineering feat, they weren’t too busy to help.
What of the blind man in Bethsaida? If his friends had been too busy to bring him to the Lord and beg Jesus to touch and heal him, he would have remained blind. Surely the Roman officer, a centurion who oversaw one hundred soldiers, was a busy man. Nevertheless, he took the time to find Jesus and plead for his young servant’s healing.
Consider Job’s friends—in spite of their business and family obligations, they weren’t too busy to drop everything and travel from their homes to offer him solace. These men didn’t just stop by to leave a covered casserole and offer quick condolences; they sat shiva, silently mourning, with Job for seven days. In spite of the errors in their theology, their intentions were good and they weren’t too busy to come!
No one is really too busy—we all manage to find time to do the things important to us; it’s simply a matter of priorities. While God doesn’t expect us to give an automatic “yes” to every request, He probably doesn’t want an automatic “no” either. Let’s face it; “I’m busy” is just an easier way to say “no!” Being busy, however, can hinder our relationships not just with people, but also with God! No matter what’s on our schedule, we must never be too busy for Him. Yet, we often start our prayers with that very complaint or answer His call with that response. He knows exactly how busy we are and how we spend (or waste) our time and energy. We need to listen and pray before deciding we’re too busy for friends, family or God. Even though He runs the entire universe, God is never too busy for us; how can we possibly think we’re too busy for Him?
Respect people who find time for you in their busy schedule, but love people who never look at their schedule when you need them. [Anonymous]