Treat other people exactly as you would like to be treated by them—this is the essence of all true religion. [Matthew 7:12 (PHLLIPS)]
The story is told of the father who gives his daughter a turtle. One day he finds her sobbing—“My turtle died!” she bawls. Dad, wanting to bring a smile back to his daughter’s face, promises that, following a lovely funeral for the reptile, he’ll take her to their favorite fast food spot for a happy meal and toy. When that does nothing to stop the flow of tears, he suggests seeing the latest princess movie following lunch. The tears slow but don’t stop, so the father says they’ll go to the carnival after the movie so she can play arcade games and ride the merry-go-round and Ferris wheel. With only a few sobs remaining, he tops off his offers with a promise to stop on the way home so she can have frozen yogurt with her pick of candy toppings. Thrilled to finally see a smile on his daughter’s face after the turtle’s unfortunate demise, Dad reaches in the bowl to remove the dead animal only to find that it is alive and well. Apparently it just had been enjoying a turtle nap. “He’s alive!” says the father joyfully to which his daughter responds, “Can we kill it?”
Kids are naturally selfish and self-centered—just watch toddlers play and notice how often you hear the words “me,” ”mine,” and “gimme.” Children are self-absorbed little creatures, but so are adults—we’re just a bit more civilized in our selfishness. We may not grab, hit, or throw temper tantrums, but we still tend to put ourselves and our wants first. Since day one, mankind has shown a preference for self-interest and we typically see the world only from our viewpoint rather than that of others or, more important, with the eyes of Jesus.
As members of the body of Christ, however, it is the lives of others that are to concern us. We are advised to share in both the joy and sorrow of our brothers and sisters. Sometimes, however, it seems easier to share in other people’s sorrow than in their joy. Just as the turtle’s fortuitous awakening meant the little girl lost her afternoon of fun, it’s rarely easy to rejoice in other people’s good fortune when we don’t share in it. Jealously, envy and resentment can rear their ugly heads. It’s especially difficult to rejoice when another person got the job we wanted, someone else’s child got the award, another person won the match, a co-worker got the praise or raise, or a friend heard the word “benign” when we heard the words “malignant” or “inoperable.” Nevertheless, regardless of our situations, other people’s good news should always be a reason for our joy.
“Genuine krab meat” isn’t truly crab; it’s an assortment of fish that has been skinned, boned, minced, and rinsed before being formed into the paste known as surimi. Fillers, flavor and color are added and the mixture is shaped into chunks or tubes and cut into blocks or sticks and cooked. Once cut up, it may look like a bit like the real thing, but there is nothing genuine about it. We’re called to love genuinely, even if it means we might have to skip the happy meal and miss the carnival. Let there be no imitation Christian love around here—it’s as tasteless and disagreeable to God as imitation crab.